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		<title>When Your Mother-in-Law moves In: Tips for a Peaceful Coexistence</title>
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		<pubDate>Tue, 11 Sep 2018 00:09:54 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator><![CDATA[Jim Swaniger]]></dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[&#160; Ready or not—your mother-in-law has moved in. Of course, you already had a busy household with kids, activities, and work. Now a whole new dynamic is being added to the mix as you take on the role of caregiver for your relative. This can either be a time of joy or dread, depending on your outlook. However, it doesn’t have to be a negative experience. You can make this an opportunity to not only aid an aging parent, but also strengthen your family as well. Consider some ideas for maintaining a peaceful coexistence when your mother-in-law moves in. Make a Plan before the Move-In Even before your mother-in-law moves in, start making a plan. Remember, people in general are less likely to do something they are hesitant to do if they are forced or told to do so. So, if possible, actively include your mother-in-law in the planning process. By including her in the process, she has a stake in the outcome. And that will help her feel empowered and that she has more ownership over the move and the situation. Some things to consider before your mother-in-law moves in include: Downsizing possessions and selling her home Making sure financial affairs are in order Preparing your home for your mother-in-law (making bathrooms and stairways safe) Ensuring her medical need are cared for Give Your Mother-in-Law Her Own Space Another tip for peaceful coexistence is to ensure your mother-in-law has her own space in your home. This could be as simple as a bedroom to a full-on apartment, depending on the layout of your home. The key is that it is her space to do as she sees fit. That includes furnishing, decorating, etc. Again, this will help your mother-in-law to feel that she has ownership over her situation and that she feels comfortable, too. Explain Your Expectations As with any new living situation, it’s important for everyone to know the expectations for coexisting together. For example, if you work from home, communicate with your mother-in-law there are times when you need to focus and be free from distractions. When laying out expectations include [&#8230;]]]></description>
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